It ain't easy~

To keep calm when it comes to fangirling but I think everyone should remember a few rules when it comes to fangirling without troubling yourself too much.....
I think when you fangirl someone, you become too invested in it but I think one has to remember that:

1. They are human, yes they'll make mistakes, they will say something you don't like, the will look horrible/haggard one day, they are not perfect !!! you don't have to like everything they do or say, and you don't have to justify their actions. (Reality is that you don't really know them in REAL LIFE).
2. Avoid fanwars at all cost, tbh is not worth it doesn't change anything or if it does it would be for the worst. X person hates your favs guts, let them hate all they want your love for them should be bigger than that, and most possible they are just attention seekers that want to prove you for random reasons why they think they are right. Most effective way to shut them up is IGNORING them (has anybody ignored you before?? don't u think it feels horrible yeah that's right).
3. Like what  you like, call urself what you want, there's no need for you to follow the rest, do you like this random song that everybody seems to hate? whatever jam to it in the car, do you  love this video that has ridiculous dancing? who cares do a dance cover and post it on youtube. It's your fav considered the ugliest in his group, well more for you!!!!
4. Be happy, even though they are not perfect, try to enjoy their good side, they are idols and entertainers their job is to make you happy, there's no need to be sad, we live everyday with sad reality... it's okay to enjoy a little of happiness.

FANGIRL AWAY ~~~~ :)